When Simple Tasks Become Complex: The Struggle with Dementia

Dementia is a condition that affects millions of people worldwide, often causing simple, everyday tasks to become daunting challenges. One of the more curious manifestations of this condition is what I like to call the 'fidgits.' This need to constantly do something with your hands can lead to some interesting and, at times, frustrating situations.

The Fidgits: A Compulsive Need

The fidgits are essentially a compulsive need to keep one's hands busy. Whether it's folding, manipulating, or hiding objects, this behavior is common among those suffering from dementia. It's almost as if their hands need to stay occupied to provide some form of mental relief. For instance, folding a blanket used to be a simple, mindless task, but now it can become a complicated and upsetting ordeal.

Blanket Folding vs. Napkin Folding

Interestingly, while folding a blanket can become a monumental task, folding napkins appears to be somewhat easier. Perhaps it's the smaller size or the more structured nature of the napkin that makes it less intimidating. Regardless, anything that can be manipulated by their hands becomes a welcome distraction from the chaos that might be spinning around in their head.

Momentary Peace in Accomplishment

Once the task at hand is accomplished—whether it's folding a napkin or hiding away small objects—there is a brief moment of peace. It's a small victory in an otherwise challenging day. But this moment of tranquility is often fleeting, as the fidgits will soon take over, and the cycle begins anew.

Understanding these behaviors can help caregivers provide better support and create a more accommodating environment for those suffering from dementia. While the fidgits might seem trivial, they are a significant part of the daily experience for many people with this condition.